Don't forget to get excited about the small things.

by Missy Boudiette in , ,


My office faces the back of our home and I have windows on either side of my desk, which is so necessary to me. I can look outside and see my garden, the sunshine, and open my windows when the weather is nice. I can also see when the kids are playing outside, or arrive from walking home from school. 

Yesterday morning, just after I sent the littles off to school and sat down at my desk to get to work, I saw my nine year old racing through the back gate and across the yard to the back door. He looked panicked, and I instantly thought that one of the other children was hurt and he had run home for help. Before I could make it into the kitchen, I heard the door open and he shouted, "IT'S A FOUR LEAF CLOVER I FOUND FOR YOU, MOM! IT'S ON THE TABLE!"

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My son had gotten so excited about finding what he thought was a four leaf clover (kinda hard to tell today since it's shriveled, but I don't think it is) that he just HAD to seize the moment and bring it home to me. I love it, and it was so revealing and inspiring to me.

Being an Entrepreneur is Hard

Being an entrepreneur is hard work. Don't let anyone tell you differently. Learning the ropes of business, managing the work, the money, the clients, the advertising is all incredibly challenging, not to mention work-life balance when you have a family. 

Just after my son brought home the four leaf clover and raced back to meet up with his friends, I received a message from a fellow small business owner who owns a doula agency. She was having one of those days where she felt utterly defeated and overwhelmed with the struggle of it all. She was wondering if it was worth it and in that moment was considering throwing in the towel and going back to a 9-5. I did my best to encourage her and remind her to focus on all her achievements and remember that this is hard work and growing a business takes time and dedication.

Don't forget to get excited about the small stuff.

Maybe what you celebrate today isn't a four leaf clover, but I'm sure there is something else for you to get excited about. Maybe it's the fact that you finally launched your website, or got a phone call from a prospective client. Maybe it's the conversation you had with someone while waiting in line at the coffee shop about your small business. Maybe you met someone who actually knows what a doula is and you didn't have to explain for the umpteenth time what you do for a living! Maybe it's the simple fact that today you made the decision to follow your dream. Whatever it is, don't forget to get excited about the small stuff. That's the stuff that keeps us going!


What You Can Do to Grow Your Business (and Yourself) RIGHT NOW

by Missy Boudiette in ,


I arrived prepared to hear about politics and Obamacare, how politics affects what happens in business, and how lobbyists are controlling the world. What I actually encountered was something very different. I didn't even come with a notepad, but as soon as Brooks started speaking, I knew I needed to be writing things down. I scrambled to find an envelope in my purse and shoved aside the bazillions of plates and dinner forks, and salad forks and dessert forks and coffee cups and saucers to start scribbling down everything I could.

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#InspireMe - The Sanyu Project

by Missy Boudiette in


I started Inspire Me posts on the Honeybee Mama blog some time back as a way of sharing things that are inspirational, that get me going. I think we all need a boost of inspiration from time to time, when life gets mundane, when we start wondering if all our hard work is worth it. Sometimes it's a song, or a piece of artwork. Sometimes it's a TED talk, and sometimes it's someone else's story. But it's more than that. Besides the fact that I have legitimate products and services that I sell, I hope my business is about my story, my message. I hope people see that if I can be brave and put myself out there as an entrepreneur and follow my dreams, you can too.

For this post, I want to share the story of a dear friend who has recently done something very brave. In fact, for a few years now she's done many brave things. She continues to look outside of her box and go there, where all that's before her is questions and it's up to her to find answers. And because she's brave enough to do that, she's changing lives and making a difference. Here's her story:

Cari works quietly in the slums of Kampala.  She is determined to see the children of the slums get a world-class education, empowering them to change their world.  From the moment I heard her story, I was hooked.  Where does a shy girl get the gumption to fly alone to Uganda, eventually deciding to stay for good?  Her story is inspiring . . . so inspiring to me, in fact, that it rocked my world.

I was working and going to school part-time, which had already taken me outside my comfort zone.  I’d been a homeschool mom for years.  I went to church, sang in the choir.  I’d dreamed of going to college for years, and I was finally doing it.  My confidence grew slowly but steadily as I succeeded in my efforts.  At the movies one afternoon, I was stunned to hear a voice from nowhere ringing in my ears – “I don’t want to be a sociologist; I want to make documentary films.”  That thought rolled around in my head for a year until I voiced the idea of filming Cari’s work to a friend.  It was so hard for me to say the words out loud.  He encouraged me to step out and do it, and The Sanyu Project was born.  Now I was way out of my comfort zone.

Plans were made to travel to Kampala for filming in October 2014.  With almost a year to prepare, I began by taking two film classes.  When I realized that I didn’t have to do everything by myself, I asked others to join me.  From brainstorming fundraisers to designing t-shirts, we did whatever we could to raise money for this venture.  Our goal was lofty – $10,000.  I had never raised money for anything.  The money came in just in time.  We left for Kampala on October 20th, fully funded.  When we returned, I created a website for The Sanyu Project – yet another thing I had never done!

Every step of this journey has been a step into the unknown, asking myself one question – “Can I really do this?”  I was still asking this question when we arrived in Uganda.  What I found out is that I can.  I was inspired by Cari’s story, and convinced it must be told.  What I needed was the courage to say yes . . . yes, I’ll do it.  I discovered that I can do more that I think I can, that I am more than I think I am, and that I am not alone.

What is your story?  What matters to you?  If it matters, don’t ignore it.  Let it speak to you.  The children of the slums of Kampala matter – that’s why Cari is there.  Cari’s story matters, and it’s bound up with the children – that’s why I went to Kampala to film her work.  My story matters, and so does yours, and so do the people you will influence.  So tell your story.  Comfort isn’t all it’s cracked up to be, and the pain of asking yourself, “What would have happened if I’d only . . . “ is just too much to bear.

I wanted to be a part of this project to help support Cari and spread her story. Her bravery and hard work inspire me, and I feel that it will affect everyone who hears it. Cari’s commitment to the children that she fosters deserves far more attention and funding than it receives, and so I joined this project to do my part in making that happen.
— Josiah Zumwalt is a founder of ABZ Productions. While a student of Media Studies at Eastern Oklahoma County Technology Center, Josiah and his teammates won first place at the Skills USA 2014 competition.
Filming for the Sanyu Project
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Christine's story actually began with Cari's story. Cari is the founder of Vision of Destiny, an organization that sponsors children in the slums of Uganda in order to help them attend school. Cari stepped out of her comfort zone, asked others to come with her, and because of her bravery, some children who were sponsored are now entering University. The project has also expanded to provide AIDS/HIV education and counseling, discipleship and even income earning opportunities for the families of the sponsored children. 

I first came to Uganda in 2001, sort of a vacation - a break from school. I wanted to check out a different part of the world. The choice seemed completely random at the time, but I fell in love with this place and it’s people. Education has always been close to my heart. I had some really great teachers who poured into me, not just into my life, but into me as a person. In Uganda, there are no free schools. The government-run schools have no ‘school fees’, but the other charges (uniforms, development fund, etc.), make it difficult for vulnerable famillies to send their children to school. I really desire for the children of Kampala to have a chance to receive a quality education, but most importantly, I want to see this generation come to know Christ. An International School will give them the best of both! They will hear daily about Christ and His great love for them. They will learn of grace and hope while getting a first-class education, empowering them to pour back into their communities.
— Cariana Nash Karugireyo, Founder of Vision of Destiny
When I heard Cari’s story, my first thought was, ‘Has anyone put together any kind of video to help raise funds?’ It honestly did not occur to me to do it myself. But a passion began to grow, a passion to take on this project and make it happen. Cari has become one of my heroes, and I want to help make her dream come true.
— Christine Giles is the founder of SilverGirl Films, and creator of The Sanyu Project.
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How will you dream big today? What are you afraid to do? Usually it's the thing that we are most afraid of doing that is our destiny, and the one thing that will fulfill our heart's true desire.